Halukel, the home therapist and author of several child care books, insisted that "children must experience immediate consequences of their behavior."
Launchk said parents' actions to "save" children in some real-life situations can actually harm children and raise them as spoiled children.
He said it would not help warning children about what would happen if they repeated bad behavior.
"When parents say this, they get the impression that it is neither natural nor logical. For example, "If you do that again, Mom and Dad will take it," and then do not actually take it. These words and words ruin the child, "he said.
Runkel advised parents should immediately remove their toys invisible if they hit their siblings with toys. It is a natural result of the child's behavior.
Runkel also said that children should be aware of themselves when they are old enough, and that they should raise their own responsibility when parents go to school.
In his book, "Scream Free Parenting," Runkel insisted that parents should free themselves from the responsibility of controlling their children's behavior and instead control their behavior.
"We are the only ones we can control. We can not control our children. We can not control other human actions. Still, many so-called "experts" say they should control the child, he wrote.