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Your child sometimes behaves erroneously, and you know that you can not avoid this. Children are always curious about the world around them. Sometimes they do trouble without measures. Parents should teach their children to understand their behavior. Through this process, children can learn the right behavior and reflect on their own. However, young children are not always obedient to their parents. Parents who do not know how to train a child often make mistakes.
Here is a list of mistakes parents make when disciplining their children.
Sometimes there are moments of angry with the wrong behavior of the child. In an article posted in Fatherly, Patrick Coleman said, "Training is based on communication. But anger cuts off communication. " If a painter tries to discipline his child when he reaches the top of his head, it will block the opportunity for the child to develop "perspective-taking" abilities. Parents have failed to understand their children, and therefore they do not have the opportunity to understand and reflect on their own.
This situation can also be stressful for your child. Coleman pointed out, "I will do anything to reduce the anger of my parents, but I will not understand and learn from my parents." Perhaps your child's behavior will not change in the future. It is better to refrain from emotions and calmly discipline. Children feel equally comfortable when their parents feel comfortable. At this time, appropriate dialogue is tried and disciplined.
Discipline should be consistent. Coleman said, "Children feel secure in their everyday, consistent family culture." If discipline is inconsistent, your child may feel anxiety. This type of parenting is often called a dictatorial form. "Dictator parents are more likely to be depressed and have less self-esteem," Coleman said. Children who grow up under dictatorial parents tend to follow people who are considered superior or stronger than themselves.
Do not show a threatening attitude to stop your child's behavior. This is not a discipline. When a child is threatened, the child can never understand what he has done. Threats do not increase your child's problem-solving abilities and can not gain any benefits.
Also, putting threats such as 'Do not love anymore' or 'Get out of the house' toward your children has an adverse effect on your relationship with your parents. Many studies have shown that parents' threatening attitudes lead to stress, depression, delinquency, and bullying problems in their children.
