There is nothing as painful and difficult as caring for a crying child without knowing the English language. However, a child who can not speak is usually considered crying because the child expresses what he wants or cries other inconveniences. It is wise for parents to know the current situation or condition of the child and find out the cause. Fortunately, the Journal of Research and Personality studies the child's crying and reveals the following: Now let's look at the main situations that parents can interpret.
1. Extreme fatigue
It is one of the most common reasons for a child to cry. The reason this happens is because the baby is often overactive and overactive, even if you only hold a small toy, you can see it crying as if it were the wrong thing. However, this behavior of the child is likely to be caused by lack of sleep.
It is good to calm the child's frequent irritation and crying with a proper sleep schedule. The sleep schedule should also include naps, usually up to 2 times a day for 15 to 18 months, and 1 for 3 to 4 years. It is effective for parents to induce fatigue of child by action such as rubbing eyes and yawn by side.
Even if a very young baby can not speak, the parent can fill the baby with breastfeeding or milk powder in time for the baby's hunger. But if you are a bigger child, but can not speak, you can suddenly cry without hunger for no reason. In addition, if a child has not eaten anything for a while, such as after taking a nap or after a few hours since the last meal, the child's feelings can go down without limit. At this time, keep healthy snacks and snacks all the time around and it is good to eat whenever the child bursts into crying hunger.
3. Excessive stimulation
A child can burst into cry when an excessive stimulus is given, such as a child riding too far in a birthday party or similar situation. This is because when the surrounding situation or your mood is too much fun and joyful it can sometimes be overwhelming to your child, and the child can not figure out what is wrong, which is a cry.
In such a situation, if the child suddenly cries out to cry, it is wise to have a break for a while. Or you should take them outside or take them to a quiet place so that they can calm their minds and relax their bodies.
Like adults, young children are also under stress. If you are a little bigger, you can cry because you can not handle the busy schedules of football games or piano practice. In addition, you may experience difficulties due to academic problems or other factors such as your family, peers and friends.
In this case, the parent should be able to change the environment in which this child is in a hurry. Reducing stressful situations can help a child better manage his or her feelings. It is desirable to be able to manage emotions effectively through respiration, meditation, and physical health activities.
5. Draw Attention
What if the child who was playing well without a sudden suddenly sobs in less than a few minutes? Children's tendencies are different, but some young children know that their crying is an act of caution and attention.
Attention is strengthening action. Saying to stop screaming and crying can be a factor in further strengthening your child's actual behavior. This is because it is well known that when a child makes such an action, the parents pay attention to it, and it is most effective to ignore the child's behavior at this time. This causes the child to realize that the behavior is no longer attracting attention and is a negative behavior.
Parents should also be firmly aware that they will only pay attention to positive behaviors, such as using friendly words and following the rules. In fact, if a child praises and respects a child when doing a good job, the child will not shed tears to attract attention.
6. Get what you want
Children do not understand the difference between what they want and what they need. So if you see something you want to have, the word "Sadal" comes out. If you say that you can not have a parent, the child will lay down on the floor and make you cry and make your parents feel sick. But if you give in to this behavior of your child, the same thing can be repeated.
Parents should share empathy and empathy as much as possible, but they should be able to completely ignore tears when they try to trick themselves. It is much wiser to persuade a child for a clear and realistic reason why a child can not buy things.
7. Expression of dislike
If the child feels annoyed or irritated about what they are doing and does not want to do any more, the child can cry and throw things around, such as throwing things around. Parents should be aware of the feelings of these children while at the same time not falling into the power struggle with their children. When a child shows this behavior, it is desirable to give a firm but calm warning, and if the same behavior occurs, show the result of the warning.
It is important to be reminded that even if you feel sad or angry with your child, you must know how to follow established rules. It's good to teach them how to take positive action whenever they get angry.
But besides all these actions, if you have an unusual child, it is best to consult a pediatrician. Because the underlying reason for the child's crying may be due to a health condition, it is necessary to have an attitude to examine and understand the child's health through consultation with a doctor.